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Wednesday, August 7, 2013

EXPOSING A SEXUAL OFFENDER

Ron Collins of Beckley, West Virginia was convicted and served time for trying to have sex with a 13 year old girl. The only thing that stopped was the fact that the attempted rape was interrupted and stopped before he could have his way with her. Collins is a very disturbed individual was for years has been attempting to pass himself off as a martial arts instructor, combat veteran and martial arts black belt.

Collins was caught with the 13 year old girl who was naked and passed out in a bed from drugs and alcohol that was given to her by Ron Collins. He had removed the girls clothes and was taking off his pants when someone came in and stopped it.

It is indeed unfortunate to read about some form of sexual abuse in the martial arts, (and disturbing to write about it), whether it be a teacher’s sexual misconduct with a student, or sexual misconduct in his or her private life outside the dojo. LIke the case of Ronald Collins Of Beckely West Virginia who has NUMEROUS arrests for charges such as possession of child pornography, contributing to the delinquency of a minor, stalking and assault, etc, show a disturbing and potentially dangerous pattern of behavior.

Quite frankly, in the case of a sexual offender, where there is smoke, there is fire.  The sad truth is that many sexual offenders LIKE COLLINS have numerous arrests and few convictions. Sexual offenders commit their acts for years before finally being exposed. It is quite possible for it to take years before someone reports a sexual offender to even start a process of conviction. Since most sexual assaults or stalking activities are one on one, these cases can be difficult to prosecute. Most sexual offenders know this and take advantage of it thru a variety of forms of manipulation, intimidation and subterfuge. The mindset of a sexual offender is of great importance in recognizing their capacity and hopefully exposing them for who they really are.

The Sexual offender typically thinks he is unique. They believe they are more intelligent and superior to others. They literally feel that they do not have to follow the same rules everyone else does. Instead of accepting responsibility for his actions, the sexual offender tries to justify his behavior. For example, he may claim he was molested as a child or that he was drunk when he did it or he may say “When she said no, she really meant yes."


The sexual offender will duck responsibility for his actions by trying to make them seem  unimportant. For example: "It was no big deal" or "She wanted it anyway." They shift responsibility for their actions from themselves to others, blaming the other person or persons for "causing" his behavior.

For example, and again in the case of Ron Collins he cintinued to slander berate and victimize two 13 year old girls online. This is quite typical of the sexual offender. He may say that, (in Collins case he did say that the two 13 year old girls were acting provocatively) she was acting provocatively or that his victim was dressed slutty.

He will berate the victim, referring to her as a “whore” a "tease," a "slut," a “bitch” etc. He may organize others to shun or criticize her for daring to "accuse" him of rape or sexual assault. Sexual Offenders often will run a smear campaign against their victims, their victim’s family, friends and those who support the victim.

In a variation on the tactic of blaming, the sexual offender will attempt to redefine the situation so that the problem lies not with him but with the outside world in general. For example, "It is society's fault, “or he may claim that it is a conspiracy against him, or that the police have singled him out and are persecuting him.

He also believes he would be extremely successful if only people were not holding him back, that others somehow stop him from being successful. The Sexual Offender will again claim this as some sort of “conspiracy” against him. He then uses this belief to justify his actions by making claims that his detractors are somehow all part of “the conspiracy” against him. He also puts other people and their achievements down verbally in order to make himself feel superior.

The sexual offender combines tactics to manipulate others causing chaos and confusion to misdirect attention from his deviant behavior. The tactics include lying, upsetting the other person or persons just to watch his or her reactions, and encouraging fights between or among others. Waging a psychological warfare, so to speak, on the ones he considers his detractors and his victims as well.

For the instructor or martial artist who is the sexual offender, he may also try to charm the person or persons he wants to manipulate, pretending a lot of interest or concern for that person in order to get on her or his good side. He may also show a lot of concern about his community and the people in it. He will try to show and convince others that he is a stand up guy that he will fight the battles others refuse to fight. Make a stand that others will not. He will brag on his prowess as a fighter and exaggerate his fighting ability and skill when in reality he may have none.

The sexual offender believes he is more intelligent than his detractors or the ones he perceives as his victims and adversaries. He uses lies to control, and manipulate the information available and therefore to control the situation. The sexual offender also may use lying to keep other people the ones he perceives as his adversaries, including his victim, off-balance psychologically. For example, He may continue to stalk his victim, or seek a confrontation to keep them fearful. He may even claim police corruption or that he was “set up” by crooked cops, attorneys and judges.  He tries to appear truthful when he's lying, he tries to look deceitful even when he's telling the truth, and sometimes he reveals himself in that process.

As mentioned earlier, a sexual offender generally believes he is better than other people and so does not have to follow the rules that ordinary people do. This attitude is typical of convicted criminals, too. Each inmate in a jail typically believes that while all the other inmates are criminals, he himself is not. Even when confronted with undeniable irrefutable evidence the sexual offender more often than not believes he isn’t doing anything wrong or even committed a crime by his own accord, almost always the fault lies somewhere else.

Occasionally, he will pretend to be helpless or will act persecuted in order to manipulate. Here, the offender thinks that if he does not get what he wants, he is the victim; and he uses the disguise of victim to attack or make fools of others.

He usually thinks of himself as strong, superior, independent, self-sufficient, a survivor, and very masculine, when in fact, physically, his personal appearance might be exactly opposite, he may not be strong, he may be diminutive in stature as well as other aspects of his being where he just doesn’t quite, dare I say, measure up. His idea of the ideal man often is the cowboy, or a fighter, it might even be some type of warrior (a NINJA for example), or an adventurer type, that he perceives himself as. Any action or perceived attitude of another person that does not conform to his GLORIFIED self-image is seen as a personal attack.

Since the writing of this article Ron Collins has been arrested yet again. This time it was for making death threats against the very Police officer that arrested him for attempting to rape the 13 year old girl.











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